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November 18

Let Them Learn It

We can finish the task in ten minutes. Showing someone else will take half an hour, and they may still make a mistake. Doing it ourselves seems efficient, especially when we are tired. Over time, however, everyone learns that we are the quickest person to ask. We become indispensable by saving a few minutes repeatedly, then wonder why no one is ready to take our place.

Developing another servant sometimes requires tolerating a slower afternoon. There is room for questions, a second attempt, and a method we would not have chosen. This is also where our pride can become visible: perhaps we enjoy being the only person who understands. Concept IX takes the continuing need for capable leaders seriously. The future of service depends in part on whether experienced members are willing to let knowledge become shared experience. Something valuable happens when another person discovers they can do the work.

Where might my efficiency be keeping someone else inexperienced?

The extra time can belong to the future of the work.

For the A.A. nerds: Twelve Concepts for World Service, Concept IX.

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